you wanted to be free and dieovcsr the world. How you wanted to simply pack your bag, swipe your credit card and off you go! Well, with hard work and sacrifice you can have what everyone can if that's the choice you make. There is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend, or husband, or any career that you choose. But at this point in your life you have to put your dreams, desires and achievements on the front burner of your priority list. After all, this is your choice and your life and you have to be, have to be, happy with it. You do good work. I just don’t think that we do enough for our young women relative to preparing them for the world of work and living a full life without the “pressure” of having to be married. Yes, (we) all want our daughters to find a good mate and be happy, but that doesn’t mean they should plan this as a way of life of dependency. We want them to make good choices, for them, and “choose” to be involved or choose the real life they want to live. Once we do that for them, or give them permission and encouragement to do so, they grow and live happier and self-esteem grows!